Vanakkam. When I saw the presence of Jutikadevi at the avudaiyar site, it brought tears in my eyes. Avudaiyar is the Parashakti portion of the Sivalingam, and the thought came to me that Goddess Parvathi came down to earth in the form of Jutikadevi to add Her Shakti through adding the gold. Iraivan Temple is wonderful.
The idea of Monistic Theism is seen in the three perfections of God Siva. Theism is the face of evolving, monism is always the Truth. We have pure consciousness and the source of pure consciousness, Absolute Reality. The soul body is maturing. The nucleus of your soul and Parameshvara are identical, you just have to realize it. Imkaif, Parasiva, one of the three perfections--you can't describe it.