It is really nice to see and hear about this wonderful Saiva family. For souls who want to take another birth for the purpose of advancing spiritually, such a family with over flowing love and Sivaness is the right place.
Religion needs to be of the present. Mankind is evolving spiritually; mass consciousness is rising. When we go to the temple, in the right spirit, contributing devotion and prana, being open to the blessings of the Deity; it purifies the mind. The Hindu religion focuses on the mind; purifies it; controls it, subdues the ego, makes us more humble.