Gurudeva always advocated that his members nurture their elders at home and not turn them out to nursing homes or leave them to die in hospitals.
Here is a remarkable, true story about one of the loved ones, a member of the family of Kulapati Easan Katir. Santosha was almost 100 in dog years and had had a wonderful life. This story happened two days ago.
“Santosha wasn’t eating, so Raja took him to a clinic on Friday, the day you sent the keynote. The vet diagnosed kidney failure, and treated him during the weekend. Santosha’s kidneys didn’t respond, and the vet said there was nothing more they could do and suggested euthanasia. Sundari and I objected, as he looked so sad in the clinic cage with all the tubes hooked up to him. He should at least have a chance to die at home. We decided to bring him home. He was very happy to come home and be with all the family for his final three days. He went for little walks, drank lots of water, and was content. We played music for him.
“He was at the Sivamani’s house (Raja’s mother ) the last day, and Venita relates this series of events:
“In the middle of the night Santosha went to the shrine room and lay very still for a long time prostrating right in front of the altar. Then about 4:30 am he went to the bedroom and brought Venita to the shrine room. Next he went back and brought Raja. Then he brought Rama. He went to Raja’s mother’s bedroom and brought her. When all were assembled he did pradakshina (walking) around the assembled group three times. Then he slowly did pradakshina around Venita.three times. He looked very purposeful, he was moving slowly. He seemed to be saying “thank you, goodbye, namaste”. Then he left the shrine room and went to a quiet corner. Later in the morning, with three big exhalations, he departed.
“Santosha was alway a cheerful, loyal friend, always forgiving and living in the moment. We will miss him.”
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Aum aum aum This dog’s passing was much better than many human transitions. To me it demonstrates very clearly that ALL come from Siva and return to him. And some Christians claim that animals have no souls. (one justification for killing animals and eating their meat)
It´s actually easy to love animals – specially dogs – when you´re able to feel how dedicated they are. Question is: can WE be as dedicated and compassionate to them as they are to us? This touching story shows some fortunate people can. Blessed be, the people who can love animals in return of their total dedication. And thanks for sharing such a loving story.
Nice story! Enjoyed it happened to those who lived the joyful moments! Even those who grasped the lovely moment without even living it physically. Many thanks to his holiness, Kulapati Easan Katir, who narrated the story with passionate spirit. Look at Santosha now. He, not ‘It’, lived with a free spirit almost much of his life. If we humans, no different from animal in the ‘flesh-and-bone’ perspective, try to live in that spirit, we would experience life as a real spiritual oppotunity. The holy dog, Santosha seems to have lived with joy and serenity within almost every moment He had, and enjoyed the Holy family’s spirit of kindness, positive-mindedness and devotion.
Man, in his actual era of rush, needs to heed to the words of the Guru who almost sparked his spirit. Enjoy without fear when the Guru is aside, within or without, as the Spirit of Divine Humble Greatness within You never dies. Santosha lived the spirit of Santosha well! :-)Aum
How absolutely divine.. My eyes are watering. How beautiful that this sweet animal was so intuitive and sensitive and full of love.
How blessed to have had such a doggie :o)
Thank you for sharing this remarkable story.
Rest in your peacful place sweet santosha.
aum namah sivaya
Within our Saiva Siddhanta Holy Scriptures the Saiva Agamas explain the basis of temple ceremonies and worship plus yoga and jnana. The Tirukural was considered by Gurudeva to be "the most accessible and relevant sacred text." In it are practical and helpful guidelines for our conduct in every day life. The point of family life is to gain steady improvement, forever, in self control in the midst of responsibilities in the fulfillment of family dharma. Meanwhile, not taking detachment too far but taking it in the sense of spiritually looking for happiness, not outside in other people or possessions, the world, but inside ourselves and then sharing it with family and friends. "We regard the writings of our satgurus as scripture."
Path to Siva, Lesson 20
Tirukural, Introduction and Contents
Tirukural, Chapter 15 Possession of Self-Control
"The temple enables us to feel the presence of God, Gods and devas." We use our inner eyes to see what's going on in the temple, the three worlds. In the temple we're being good dvaitists in the dimfi perspective, focused in bhakti upon God Siva. In meditation we're monists, in the shumif perspective. We claim our oneness with Siva, Sivoham, I am Siva. In surrender, shrinking the ego through devotion, we have a realization that we're not the doer, that Siva is doing it all. Siva's energy comes through our soul.