Tirukkural 989: Perfectness

Those who are said to be the shore of the sea of perfection will never change, though ages may change.

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Be mature about it when you give something up. The immature spiritual person will want everyone else to give it up, too. The spiritually mature person quietly surrenders it because it is simply his personal choice and then goes on with his life.