Tirukkural 1015: Fearing Guilt

The world regards as the abode of modesty him who fear his own and other's guilt.

Image of Satguru Sivaya Subramuniyaswami
If you do not understand your reaction to something, wait until it subsides emotionally, so you will not be upset, then try to understand it by writing about it in a quiet moment. Then burn the paper in an inauspicious fire, such as in a garbage can.
—Gurudeva