A Character Building Workbook

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Read here—bit.ly/humility31—a story of humility with an odd twist. When a king astonishes his ministers by removing his crown and bowing to a sage (a breach of protocol), they learn that part of his greatness is his humility.§

Humility means being free of ego and pridefulness. I express humility when I give credit to my parents, teachers and the Deities for any achievements or recognition. The opposite is pride.§

Comparing the actions of one who is humble to one who is proud§

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Winning an award and asked to give a speech, you…§

give credit for your accomplishment to your wonderful teachers.§

proudly accept the accolades, feeling you are finally being recognized.§

Complimented for your skill in math, you…§

defer the praise, saying, “Oh, I am just a beginner in this vast area.”§

readily admit you are the best mathematician in school.§

When meeting new people, you…§

naturally assume an attitude of modesty, respect and equality.§

make quick judgments and hold an attitude of superiority.§

Gurudeva explained: “Humility is mildness, modesty, reverence and unpretentiousness. We cultivate humility by taking the experiences of life in understanding and not in reaction, and by seeing God everywhere. We cultivate humility through showing patience with circumstances and forbearance with people.”§

“Humility is intelligence; arrogance is ignorance. To accept one’s karma and the responsibility for one’s actions is strength. To blame another is weakness and foolishness. Let’s begin by not advertising our ignorance.”§

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ASSIGNMENT: During these two weeks, meditate on the various humble ways you can respond to being praised. At each opportunity that arises, defer to a teacher, parent or Deity any compliments you are given.§

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MY THOUGHTS ON THE BENEFITS OF HUMILITY: images§

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