Weaver’s Wisdom

Old Familiarity

KURAL 801

What is old familiarity? It is when neither friend objects to liberties taken by the other.§

KURAL 802

Liberties taken by a friend are friendship’s rightful possession; to allow them is the willing duty of wise men. §

KURAL 803

What is the purpose of long-standing fellowship if friends’ familiar actions are not accepted as one’s own?§

KURAL 804

Familiar with familiarity, the wise are never annoyed when friends do things without asking.§

KURAL 805

When friends do things that hurt you, attribute it to unawareness or to the privileges of friendship. §

KURAL 806

Bound by brotherhood, true friends never break their bond with an old comrade, even if he brings them loss.§

KURAL 807

Old friends do not forsake loving fellowships, even when those they cherish happen to do them harm.§

KURAL 808

An intimate of any strength will never listen to faults said of friends; and on the day a friend offends, he is content to keep silent.§

KURAL 809

The world cherishes faithful men who never forsake old friendships, worn by time but unbroken.§

KURAL 810

Even ill-wishers will wish those well who never abandon affection for old friends.§