Tirukkural 93: The Utterance of Pleasant Words

Sweet speech, flowing from the heart (uttered) with a cheerful countenance and a sweet look, is true virtue

Image of Satguru Sivaya Subramuniyaswami
If difficult things are happening to you and your mind is disturbed because of them and you have mental arguments within you because you can't accept your own karma, go to the feet of Lord Siva in your mind.
—Gurudeva