Tirukkural 271: Imposture

The five elements (of his body) will laugh within him at the feigned conduct of the deceitful minded man.

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Be mature about it when you give something up. The immature spiritual person will want everyone else to give it up, too. The spiritually mature person quietly surrenders it because it is simply his personal choice and then goes on with his life.
—Gurudeva